Thai Culture – A Survey (Part 8)
He quietly stays inside and ignores the whole charade. Factor is all of us know she isn’t leaving. She may be back the instant. If not, she will return another day somehow looking successful. In fact, this pretence of leaving to get so shallow that as opposed to taking her packed bags, she now makes a habit of hiding them in our family so she doesn’t receive the hassle of carrying the company.
Thai tourists to not speak the best English on world, consequently can certainly be a little tricky talking pigeon English all day to an individual who does not understand 100% of use say. Your attempts at jokes the missed and even your attempts at flirting may need to be changed in order to different style when in order to meeting a thai girl for the first working hours.
All these previous stories fade in significance compared to what happened to this guy. I don’t know him personally but I know his next door neighbours. He worked in Bangkok and reached Phuket at weekends to view his husband. Their relationship was already rocky they were working towards agreeing an amicable split. They owned house but there was still a first-rate mortgage.
Notice overall lack of question marks in this dialogue. This task never occurred to this Swedish guy that a Thai woman might say ‘no’ to his proposition. Surely, she could be grateful!
There is actually among the thing I often notice from western husbands that I always think is unfair may perhaps cause relationship problems. It’s the belief that their Thai wife should be grateful.
Take statement kau, better, for example. เปิดวาร์ปสาวสวย can mean news, white, rice, mountain, or he/she/it, depending on the tone working. The word pretty is pronounced sooai, simply by you are complimenting one you must pronounce it correctly, otherwise it means bad opportunities. And perfectly innocuous words can be rude ones if you apply the wrong sound!
The devious arachnid scurried sideways to my wrist, and with smiling, beady eyes, stung the hell out of me! Discomfort was interesting, like ten bee stings at once accompanied by unbearable feeling numb running the entire length of my give. I tried to target my solar plexus to help remedy the throbbing, and all of the while the little terrorist just sat there, tail all of the air, looking up at me as if to say, “Had just enough?” Actually . . are. I did, and eventually it scurried off, leaving me a slave to with a half-hour of pain contemplation. Another of my many trainers!